Trust your editor...

The relationship between a writer and editor can be so rewarding or a challenge, depending on so many factors. But at the core, there must be a level of trust, and respect. There isn't a desire to change the words or meaning unintentionally. But there is often the need for a guiding hand if something doesn't make sense, should be expanded upon, or if the intent is lost.

Writers can be very attached to their projects, naturally so. I've still trying to revise one of my own works. Every few months, I take it out of the drawer, dust it off, and refine it some more. I would be cautious when entering a relationship with an editor because they don't know how hard I've worked on it, how much of my own opinions and experiences are hidden in the scenes, and what my ultimate vision for it is. I might initially be hesitant to make drastic revisions in plot or character development.

However, if there is an open dialogue with an editor, I believe that they could make it so much richer and actually get it over the line to becoming a published work. We can't be afraid to rely on others' expertise and specialties when they can benefit us. So often, you need the duality of the writer/editor partnership to take a good piece of writing and make it great. Editing is an intricately collaborative process, and trust is the foundation on which two minds can mold a narrative into its best version.

So if you're skeptical or just curious about what all goes into the editing process or the personal motivations for an editor, feel free to ask questions. I can only speak to my own bedside manner and my own techniques, but I first and foremost attempt to be open and honest with my feedback. I highlight those areas that stand out to me in a powerful way or those areas that I see the potential but need some finesse, and then it's up to you to pick and choose what makes sense to you. Your name goes on it. I want you to be proud of the finished product. I simply enjoy polishing a rock to find the gem underneath.